08/ 09/ 2016

SHE IS NOT MISS CONGENIALITY

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If I were a part of an outfit, I’d be that awkward pair of jeans, the one that’s hard to mix and match with, or that skirt you bought because it’s different, then you realized it’s too different you had it collecting dust in your closet.

I’ll be that crazy looking shoes that don’t blend with any outfit, you need to find an equally crazy looking dress to go with it.

If I were an outfit, I won’t be that denim jeans, the Ms. Congeniality of every wardrobe.

I’ll be that off trend skirt only a weirdo would wear, or an oversized top with padding on the shoulders only an experimental person would muse.

If you’re reading this and you feel the same? welcome to the club.

We are the introverts, haha.

It used to bother me that I don’t have a lot of friends, that I can’t be with certain types of crowd, that I can’t spit a word when I’m with certain group of people.

I thought it was a phase, it wasn’t.

I thought it would go away, it didn’t.

I thought I was disliked.

I thought I was abnormal, but no I wasn’t (okay fine, abnormal a little haha).

It took me ages to figure that out, or someone pointed it out (Thanks Krystal Dunkin, you gave me that aha! moment) and it’s amazing how one discovery changed the way I feel about my sociality.

Now I understand why some people think I’m quiet, why I don’t get bored with silence, why I have very very few friends.

And it’s okay, it’s okay not to be Ms. congeniality.

Introverts, it’s okay.

hugs, Bing♥

Scarf:H&M/Denim JAcket:Thrifted/Overall:H&M

Location: Byxby Bridge Big Sur, CA

Photo Credit: Boyfriend

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8 responses to “SHE IS NOT MISS CONGENIALITY”

  1. Elle says:

    Bing,
    This si a fabulous and important post. I have always like introverts, and was shy when I was young. I think introverts are more interesting, and more creative. The older I get, the less shy I am, I would say that now I am an extrovert, but always am an admirer of the thoughtful introvert, who is happy to keep her own company and enjoy!
    Love this outfit! And the clothing metaphor!
    I would be a mixed medial dress; one part paisely, the other part striped, and trimmed in velvet- I think, just for the softness.
    Love this outfit, the dotted head scarf, the denim jacket and the easy patterned pants. chic and comfy!
    XX, Elle
    http://www.theellediaries.com/

  2. April Nunez says:

    Ahhhh i really love the scenery in your post, such a great post. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

    April of: https://beybiapril.wordpress.com/
    Instagram: @aprilnunezzz

  3. Eden says:

    These photos are beautiful. It’s been a few years since I went to this location, but it’s such a lovely place!

  4. Shybiker says:

    You sound exactly like me! I’m a lifelong introvert with the same experiences you describe. Let’s feel good about who we are. You be you Bing.

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